Dating a man with genital herpes
On the downside, condoms do not significantly reduce the risk of infection as the contagious areas (areas where the virus is shedding; usually around the outbreak area) is not coverd by the condom. Had I been more attracted to her I might have taken the risk but even then it's unlikely. You can rationalize it all day long, but there's always some risk involved.To say her life is over or who'd want her because she has the genital equivilent of a coldsore seems a bit melodramatic. Perhaps if I was somehow 0 certain that I'd end up marrying her at some point I would have gone that extra mile but casually dating someone isn't reason enough for me unfortunately.dated a lady for a while that was afraid she had picked up the virus from a former partner. enough cannot be said for the need to be careful with yourself and your partners. If the worst happens, then you're the one having to explain to your partner what you have, what the risks are, etc., etc.We already have dating websites that cater to every subset of the population from the Amish and adults who wear diapers to Ayn Rand lovers.And the potential dating pool for singles with STDs is a lot bigger.Some critics claim that the sites could further ostracize people living with an illness.But after browsing the sites, it's clear that they provide more than love matches - they also offer a supportive environment and a safe place to ask questions and become educated.In this case she did not deserve this to happen to her..I stand by her and support her the best I can. She is beautiful, young, and at the top of her modeling career, the only thing that upsets her now is who is gonna want her??? About 20% of the women don't even know they have it because they've never had an outbreak.
sure the books I saw pictures of had rather bad cases, not everyone gets it that bad and outbreaks aren't usually all that often but if there is that chance.. ....why, because it is an incurable condition, and eventually it can be passed over!!!
Obviously it should be mentioned before things get physical, but where is the line?
But when is the right time to bring up a sexually transmitted disease?
She told me what she knows about it and suggested I do some research and educate myself. Question: How would YOU view a prospective sexual partner informing you of their issue, and how would you handle the situation? You'd be surprised how many people have misconceptions about genital herpes.
wow that would be a tuff call ......first thing i would do is appreciate and applaud them fer their honesty in telling me.....for what i would do then......well, i havent been in that situation before so i dont really know how i would handle it..........well, my best friend was getting married to her so called man of her dreams...was sleeping around on her from a girl he met at a bar..then caught herpes and passed it on to my friend...situation is a little far from yours...all I can do is be her friend because she was the victim.... Did you know that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men have it?